Start: Mixing Up Left and Right
When Murphy first tried Matatalab unplugged coding, she often mixed up whether the robot should turn left or right. When a route got long, she felt like giving up.
Persistence: The Process Matters
We did not correct her answers. We sat on the floor with her and traced the robot's path step by step with our fingers. When it went the wrong way, we asked together, “Why did it go there?” Over a few months, she learned to stay calm, find the mistake and fix it.
Result: Growing Through Mistakes
She entered six coding competitions in a year, starting in August 2025, and won first place in June 2026. We tell her competitions are for learning; the placing comes second. So when she does not win or gets something wrong, she does not cry or fuss. She looks back at what went wrong and says she wants to “try again”. To us, this matters more than a prize. Debugging has also taught her to break a problem into small steps.
“I like coding with blocks. I make the robot go through the maze!”
Mum also signs us up for parent-child STEAM activities run by different schools at weekends. Murphy has built a windmill and a spinning top for a parent-child science contest, made a water filter with sand and stones, pushed a wooden cart with magnets and lit a bulb with a closed circuit. With Mum, she used generative AI to make a picture of our family, which won first place in a parent-child AI art competition.
Dad has taken her to AWS and Google offices for family days and visits, where she saw new technology up close with other children. She asks “why?” about new things and makes friends quickly. After one visit she had a new wish: “When I grow up, I want to go to work with Daddy!”
❤️ How We Support Her
Ask, don't fixWe ask, “Why do you think it went wrong?” and let her find out.
Weekends togetherMum plans our weekend activities: STEAM workshops, contests, farms and outdoor adventures.
Mistakes help us learnWhen something doesn't work, we find out why together and try again.